Sharing is a good relationship practice
From early childhood we are told that we must learn to share our toys and belongings with others. We are also coached to associate sharing with being a good person and friend. Interestingly enough, as firmly as this lesson is preached, the skill of sharing is hard to practice throughout our lives and relationships. Couples often struggle with various issues that are related to sharing. Transitioning from being single to being a half of a committed relationship labels the problem from the start. Mates have to agree on sharing their space, their belongings, their money, time and attention. So why after all the years of indoctrination into a sharing mode does one keep struggling to achieve this function easily? The answer lies in the fact that sharing is a social need that supports groups, but is not in line with the instinctual survival need of each individual. The person who gets more of the food, the roomier space, the better advantage of any asset is more likely to thrive. Ins...